Notes from the Mayoress’ Parlour – January

January has been a less busy month than previously but there have been some very interesting events. The first of these was at The Life Centre in Moordown which was organised and run by Bournemouth People First who demonstrated to the invited audience the need for a ‘Bill of Rights’ Charter for people with learning disabilities. Their short presentations covered different aspects of their lives and clearly showed the discrimination and denial of civil rights which they suffer, often unintentionally, due to assumptions about their needs and abilities. They have drawn up the Charter and it certainly needs to be adopted and widely communicated to counteract these prejudices. One of the young men who helped with the demonstrations was one of the main participants in the Channel 4 TV programme entitled ‘The Undateables’ where he found himself a young lady friend.

Later in the month we attended a presentation at Poole Museum by children from two schools entitled “What’s Your Story”. The Poole Mayor was also in attendance as one of the schools was in Poole and the other in Bournemouth. The children had produced films about the history of their schools and had interviewed local residents to provide the information. It was a very interesting project which was presented very well by the children and reminded my husband and I of our schooldays.

Other attendances were at St Peter’s Church on the Holocaust Memorial Day at a morning Eucharist service, and in the afternoon at the Lighthouse in Poole for a Holocaust remembrance presentation. Both of these were very well attended and were very moving ceremonies. Then there was a celebration at the Wessex Hotel for the Council’s Adult Social Care Workers who have worked hard to maintain a good service during the changes which have been necessary in the restructuring of the service. A much more spectacular event was the UK Dance Championships at the BIC. The dancing was superb and the dresses very beautiful; it was a most memorable evening.

The Mayor has officially opened or launched several new projects and business. These included, a Gurkha restaurant, a Sue Ryder Charity shop, the Venus Awards for Women in Business and the Chinese New Year Celebrations at the Library.We also attended the launch of the Cathedral Innovation Project at the House of Lords. An interesting project we officially launched was at ‘Zip Yard’, which is a dry-cleaning business, where they have started a Clothes Bank. They accept clothes which people no longer require; they then repair and clean them and pass them on to the Food Bank Centre in Charminster where the clothes are given to those in need. The Mayor also presented awards to the Bournemouth in Bloom winners.

We attended two Burns Nights, one held by the Caledonian Society and the other being the Mayor’s own Charity Burns Night. Both provided excellent food and entertainment, the haggises were very thoroughly addressed and appropriately killed; the pipers were at full-throttle and Scottish accents abounded – great fun.

Other appointments have been to the All Saints Theatre for a performance of the ‘Scrooge Musical’ where we met the cast after the performance, including the many young actors who were still very excited. It was a very entertaining performance. We also attended the launch of the Spring Season at Pavilion Dance, where we watched a screening of the Bolshoi Ballet in a performance of ‘Jewels’. Needless to say, the dancing was superb but the screening went backstage and gave short interviews with the participants. There will be other such screenings at Pavilion Dance during the year and they are well worth attending.

We were invited by Bournemouth Hospital Radio to be interviewed for their Bedside Programme. So we went along to the rather drab looking grey building in the hospital grounds; a little nervously in my case. However, as the programme did not go out live this took the pressure off and it became a friendly, chatty hour with the interviewer. She was very interested in that we had written a book about Chinese temples whilst we were living in Hong Kong. She had lived for some time in the Colony and had bought a book entitled Hong Kong Temples which she said she had found very informative and useful. She later told us that it was the book that we had written. It was gratifying to know that at least one person had liked it!

In the Mayor’s Parlour we have hosted a group of teachers from Zibo, China, and the Head of Georgia’s Youth Parliament. We have held another dinner party, a soiree for local charity fund-raisers and the usual post-Council meeting with the Councillors. In addition there have been the meetings with the Mayor’s Charity Committee relating to fund-raising events, when we have discussed the Mayor’s Ball. We are planning to call it “The Mayor’s Charity Extravaganza” as we hope to be showcasing some of Bournemouth’s super talent.

In the Council Chamber there have been the Citizenship Ceremonies which have now increased to four a month from the one a month in the recent past. Oh, I almost forgot, we attended two 100th birthday parties on the same day, both quite lively events; one with a vocalist to entertain and the other with two young ballroom dancers. We always enjoy meeting these centenarians and learning a little of their lives.

That’s all for now.

God Bless
Elaine Cooper

Notes from the Mayoress’ Parlour – October

October has been a little busier than September but there have been a few free days which gave me time to catch up on domestic issues which become rather chaotic when we are very busy.

We have been invited to two Civic Days during the month; by the Mayor of Ferndown and the Mayor of Christchurch.

At Ferndown we visited the Superior Seals factory where they make O-rings (‘rubber seals’ in my lexicon). The factory is very new, very clean and very ‘state of the art’. It was absolutely fascinating to see how these very different sized rings are made, inspected and selected or rejected automatically by machine. The rubber is made from polymers which are a mystery to me; they were not in my ‘O’ level chemistry syllabus. We then visited Knowle Gardens, followed by lunch at Ferndown Golf Club which, I understand, is one of the best golf clubs in the country and has hosted many of the top golfers.

 

At Christchurch we visited Highcliffe Castle, the lovely beaches, and then crossed from Mudeford Quay to the Spit where we stopped for coffee. We visited Iford Bridge, where we heard about the flood defences, before having lunch at the Captain’s Table Restaurant. On both of the Civic Days we were lucky to have dry sunny weather after days of rain.

 

All other events have been within the Borough, except for the Lord Lieutenant’s Annual Awards Ceremony which was held at the National Sailing Academy, Portland. These awards are presented each year to the four best Reserve Cadets and the four most worthy Reservists. The guests were military officers, cadets, reservists, mayors, the High Sheriff, the Lord Lieutenant and her deputy the Vice Lord Lieutenant. It was an interesting evening where we also met the Sword Bearers who later attended the Mayor’s Civic Service at RHSA by his request.

Locally we attended the opening of the new extension at St Michael’s Primary School where the children entertained us with representations of the most significant event of each decade since the school was founded. The children’s costumes and performances were excellent and they carried out their roles very professionally. We attended a Ritz Tea Party at Malmesbury Park Primary School, which followed on from a visit a group of the children had made to the Mayor’s Parlour in order to interview the Mayor. At the Tea Party the children presented the results of the project to the people they had interviewed, who included the MP Tobias Ellwood, the Mayor, their headmistress and others. Each of the interviewees was presented with a booklet entitled ‘This is Your Life…’; this will be an excellent memento of the event. The children were all in party dress and we were wonderfully hosted by the girl and boy who were leaders of the school council. We were entertained by the school choir and a young drummer, both were excellent, there was also a short film about the project. Both of these events were memorable.

During the weeks of the Arts Festival we attended a number of the special events including an evening at the Natural Science Society in celebration of the work of Paul Nash and a concert of Paganini’s music at the Shelley Theatre. We have hosted two dinner parties, two buffet lunches and a number of receptions in the Mayor’s Parlour; we have attended the Trafalgar Ball at The Pavilion and the Pop for Diabetes Ball at the Marriot Highcliffe Hotel. There have been three invitations to the University, two of which were awards ceremonies and the other a Canine Carers’ awareness event. Other civic events have been the Team Bournemouth Awards which are presented each year to members of the Council for extra special service, and a lunch at the College where we met young chefs in training alongside top chefs from the hotels, and we enjoyed a delicious lunch!

During the month we have launched the Mayor’s DeLuxe coffee at various hotels in the town and it is now on sale in the Tourist Information Centre. The Mayor has commissioned Bournemouth Brewing Company, a small local brewery, to brew a special ale for him. This should be ready for tasting in December and will be under the Bournemouth Welcome logo, as is the coffee. It is hoped that these products will appeal to visitors as well as residents of Bournemouth.

I cannot close without mention of the Fire Walk, although this was held in early November. There were twenty-six participants all of whom were somewhat nervous before the event, but we were well briefed and made ready for the challenge by the organizer. In the event, the worst part was standing waiting with bare feet on the cold wet grass. Once having overcome the fear we all did the walk a second or third time! We made in excess of £5,000 for the Mayor’s Charities and I thank all who were generous enough to be my sponsors.

That’s all for now; I wish you all a very happy Christmas and will be in touch again in the New Year.

God Bless
Elaine Cooper

Notes from the Mayoress’ Parlour – July

How time flies! July has been a very busy month with at times three or four events a day. In total this month we have attended 63 events.

What have we been doing? There have been a lot of events with regard to flower displays. We entertained the Bournemouth in Bloom judges at a buffet lunch in the Mayor’s Parlour where we also met the many volunteers who help to beautify the town. During the same week we also met the National Garden Scheme judges from the Royal Horticultural Society for coffee in the Mayor’s Parlour and later at the Miramar Hotel for lunch. I was given the task of hosting the judges at coffee time, as the Mayor was engaged with the Chief Executive. Research on our book about Bournemouth had provided me with a reasonable knowledge of the town’s gardens, which was useful.

There was also an exhibition at the BIC by the National Flower Arranging Society at which the Lord Lieutenant of Dorset attended. As it is obligatory for the Mayor to be host to the Lord Lieutenant when she is in town, we were also in attendance. The exhibition was superb and we would like to have spent more time viewing the exhibits; maybe we will in a future year. When the Lord Lieutenant had left, we attended a demonstration of flower arranging, after which I was invited to draw the raffle and, amongst others, drew out one of the Mayor’s tickets! We also visited two local gardens which are in the National Garden Scheme.

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We visited several schools. For these visits the Mayor wears his robes and we both wear our full chains of office. The children really enjoy these visits and it’s a joy to see the excitement on their faces. On one occasion we were accompanied by three junior students on a tour of the school. They were excellent guides and were obviously very proud of their school. The Mayor also presented graduation certificates at a junior school where the students wore graduation robes and mortar boards to receive their leaving certificates. Both the students and parents were clearly very proud to have their achievements recognised in such a positive way. Before leaving we were in huge demand for photographs and signatures, obviously the move into a different stage of their lives was of great significance for the young people.

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What else? We attended the AGM of the National Association of Scouts at Buddens Farm near Wareham. It was a very hot day and the meeting was held in a tent – not the most comfortable event. Several Mayors and Mayoresses from the surrounding area were in attendance, plus our local MP, Tobias Ellwood. The Lord Lieutenant was also attending as she had the task of laying the foundation stone for a planned extension which will provide the Association with a headquarters building. We all wilted in the heat!

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Another event out in the countryside was the Guides 31st Camp at the Dorset County Showground. Unfortunately the Bournemouth Guides were away spending a night camping on Brownsea Island, so we were accompanied on a tour of the camp by two Guides from Portland. They were very pleasant and expressed their enjoyment of the time they had spent at the camp, apart from the night on Brownsea Island when they were cold and pestered by insects!

The Mayor has also hosted visitors to the Mayor’s Parlour, chaired the Council Meeting, officiated at the Citizenship Ceremonies and attended various festivals and fun days and, of course, attended the service of Induction of the Revd. Adlem and Ordination of Heather-Ann, both of whom we welcome to Richmond Hill St Andrews. I accompanied the Mayor at all these events.

It’s a busy life but most enjoyable.
That’s all for now.

God bless
Elaine Cooper